While I have considerable experience dishing it out to my man, this will be my first real experience being on the receiving end. I simply do not know the experience level of my friend, and I enjoy the anticipation of not knowing. When I asked her over the phone if she was willing and able to dole out the required hard paddling, she responded (quite gleefully from her tone I might add!), "Don't you worry. I'll paddle your butt real good. You won't be sitting after I'm done."
Now, this may be a joking bluster on her part. If she lacks experience she won't know how hard is hard, and being a sane person might underestimate that, as has been my (personal) experience on my journey on the topside. On the other hand, my butt is pretty virginal (in the spanking sense - don't ask otherwise!), so it may not take a lot either...
Our plan, detailed below, is to give Tracy a letter from Sir with some additional requirements, tips and details that ought to make her more comfortable spanking harder (and still safely) if she wants to. More fun if it appears to come from him. For example, in the letter he requests that I be completely bare naked during my spanking. Given she has no problem spanking me bare butt, I doubt the additional nudity will be a problem? But at any rate, with this letter it gives us an easy out, as in "what a perv, ha ha, the spanks are going to be over your dress, of course! What does he take us for?!" Or she might just say (which I think is the path of least resistance): "It says strip. So strip."
I have been warned by some experienced and concerned readers not to overly build up my expectations. Not to let my fantasies run too wild on what might happen, and then be disappointed by what actually does. I know it's well meaning, but I 'kinda reject that thinking. I am having an incredible, humbling experience imagining the worst! This is the "fun part" (if you call that funny churning butterfly feeling in the pit of my tummy "fun", which I think I do). That, "Oh no, she might actually..."
I am bi-sexual, but do not have a tremendous amount of experience with women as compared to men. With women, it's like I'm a teenager again, experiencing sex for the first times. So I get these puppy love moments, as I am feeling now for Tracy. So my first "real" spanking and these puppy love sexual feelings are all churning together in my tummy.
That's surely what it's like for a man as well. This overlay of sexual excitement, dominance from their partner, submission from themselves, and spanking pain. What a confused jumble! I have never quite experienced this before now, which is why I am reveling in the anticipation.
My expectations for the actual event? Anything goes! It will be an experience regardless and I am going in with a fully open mind, body, and soul, and we'll just have to see, now won't we?
Picking up the narrative from where I left off in the previous installment, with my phone call with Tracy, I wrote Sir back, and recounted my conversation with her, ending with,
So OMG! A girl's 'gonna do it.I get into such shenanigans. Thank you, sir!
Good girl. Is there going to be anymore whining about this spanking young lady?
(Although I may be sorry, and sore, afterwards!)Oh no Sir!I'm very happy that my pretty friend will spank me.
I fully expect that u had better be sore and sorry young ladyThen he got another idea..
After you have been soundly paddled the next day will be spent in a pleated skirt no panties. Every time you sit it will be bare bottom to seat. And you are forbidden to play in any way touching yourself.Oh dear... pleated skirt, no panties, after a blistering???
Sitting on my bare blistered bottom???
What if someone finds out???
But I have to do as Sir instructs, or at least try...
That is very hot, Sir!
You bring out the subby in me...The day after my upcoming paddling, which I fully expect will blister my butt, I will wear a skirt, no panties, and sit on my sore bare tail. And I'll try very very hard to not play with myself, though I don't know how successful I will be...
If you fail you will be punished again. If you really want to understand submission you have to experience it. You Will NOT relieve your desire.A few days later I wrote again. I'd been thinking about this paddling from Tracy, orchestrated by Sir, a lot,
I still haven't heard that the paddle has arrived. I'll reach out today to ask, though I made her promise to text me as soon as she got it.
Feeling very nervous about my paddling!!! Not least because it will be this friend of mine administering it that I've never acted out on anything sexual with before. It might wind up in bed! I hope so... You only said no touching myself or relief the NEXT day. Is getting my pussy licked by a girl the day of my paddling ok???
I think it would be less awkward if you wrote me an email saying something like, "In exchange for the paddle, I expect...". That way I can share that with her and it won't be me "begging for it", it will be you. I can tell her I gave my word of honour to carry it out in exchange for my paddle, and we can laugh about it and how "pervy" you are (in a good way! It's a compliment when it comes from me, sir!). And then she's 'gonna have to do it.
Sir wrote the first draft quickly. And he specified a number of additional indignities. I "unfortunately" had to keep all of those in the note! We went back and forth on the right tone and wording in the note to Tracy, but we kept all the activities that Sir had required, of course. We settled on the following. I'll add my initial reactions as I read Sir's note for the first time inline in dark red.In the email you could be more prescriptive with her on my paddling. Like,warm up or not before? Positioning. How undressed? How hard (hard, I hope! I want to feel it, and she will probably need encouragement to go hard enough). Corner time before or after? Position for the photo. What my butt should look like in the photo to satisfy you that I was properly paddled (maybe just "Seriously marked up or you'll be doing it again" so she knows she won't be doing me any favors by going light). Whatever you want. I want to feel that submissiveness, sir. And I doubt she has much experience and I don't want to be the one telling her what to do!Thank you!
From: SirTo: TracyRe. The paddling of Julie
First of all, let me say thank you, Tracy, for agreeing to extract my payment from Julie's little butt. I do not know your experience level in administering a spanking to a young lady such as Julie. In case you are new to it, below are some suggestions. Of course, please feel free to do whatever and only as much as you are comfortable with. Julie has already agreed to the strength and number of strokes, and to whatever additional instructions I choose, which are as follows.1) Tell her to remove her clothing. ALL OF IT. If she is shy about it or slow about it, a sharp hand smack to her upper thighs will suffice to motivate her.
Oh crap. I didn't know Sir would make me strip naked!!! I thought it would be just panties demurely lowered?? And then being hurried along by Tracy with slaps to my thighs if I don't go quick enough??? and Sir KNOWS how sensitive my thighs are... This is going to be absolutely humiliating...
2) Put her into the corner for 10 minutes, by the clock, to contemplate her fate. Take a pic of her in the corner as a "Before".
What....!!!??? Naked corner time? Like a little freakin' girl!!! Arghhhh! I'm Strict Julie. I don't DO corner time!!! I MAKE people do corner time! Boo hoo.
Imagine me standing like this, completely nude, nose in the corner, punished like a child with a timeout, for ten whole minutes. tick, tick, tick, as Tracy shakes her head at this silly little girl while contemplating what she will do to her silly little bottom after the timeout is up...
3) Then please open the package containing the paddle while she is still in the corner, and prepare the room for her spanking. I suggest a good straight back chair. I'm sure she will hate being spanked bare over the knee like a sassy 10 yr old.
How absolutely humiliating. I'm not a sassy 10 yr old and don't want to appear that way to my friend...
4) Call her out of her corner and put her across your knee. A good hand spanking as a warm up is necessary to get her attention.
Totally bare naked across her knee. Oh no!
I guess a hand spanking warm-up is good and bad. I was hoping for a hand spanking to warm me up before the paddle. But it's kind of open ended. What if Tracy goes nuts???
Then I'll be a sorry red-bottomed girl even before the paddle comes out!!!!
5) Once you have her full attention, then start in with the paddle. I expect the end result to be a very very red butt. A good sign of a job well done is tears. I suggest 24 sound strokes. HOWEVER that is MY due. You may feel free to add up to double if you feel necessary to take your "pound of flesh" as well.
What??? "Add up to double???" Does that mean she can ADD another 48??? On top of my 24? That's... that's... 72 paddle spanks!!!! Where did that come from. Oh Shit! If she takes Sir up on it, I WILL be in tears, and my butt WILL be blistered! What did I get myself into??? But I agreed to take what Sir and Tracy choose to dish out...
6) After you are sufficiently satisfied that the paddle has been paid for IN FULL, and that you too have been compensated for your time, please then take a picture of her over your knee still with the paddle laying in the small of her back.
Expected that. How embarrassing to have to ask her to take that photo.
7) She should then be put back in the corner bare bottom for 15 min or so. This will help her compose herself.
I wonder if 5 minutes still qualifies as "or so?" I wonder what my butt will look like?
The next day she will be required to wear a dress and no underwear and to sit on only hard wooden chairs on her blistered bare bottom.
Did Sir have to tell her that?
Please understand that she has agreed to pay for her new paddle in this manner, and has agreed that if the pictures do not show a sufficiently well-blistered bottom that I will be requiring her to do it again. So you WILL NOT be doing her a favor by going light. I expect her to know and feel this for several days.
Yes. I asked for that sentiment. But that was when I thought I was only getting 24 max! I am so done for... she will BLISTER me.
I'm sure Julie does not want you to know this, but she wants me to "insist on" you making sure it it is a "for real" intense and severe paddling, where you ignore any crying, pleas for mercy, kicking, yelling, and so on during this punishment. She is too embarrassed to ask you this herself directly. Assuming you are comfortable with it, please ensure at the time that this is indeed what she still wants, and then I suggest you give her exactly what she's asking for.
I actually wrote that part of this note. What a dope I am! I better play safe, though, and make her more comfortable...
If you confine the intense paddling to her lower butt cheeks, the plump undersides of her ass, there will be no chance of injuring her. The photo below shows the safe area (and the correct results).
If you spank where indicated, you may feel confident in paddling hard but safely. And she will need it. If you are new to this, then harder than you imagine. For further safety's sake, though, I must insist that Julie have a "safeword", which is "Red". If she uses her safeword you must stop, of course, and check-in with her.So when Sir reviewed this blog prior to my posting it, he told me there was too much sex in there, that I had a filthy mouth and used too many swear words, and he wanted me to tone it down and not swear like a sailor. But I can't have my self-expression curtailed like that... I guess I will just have to suffer Daddy's consequences...
There. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Well consensual and safe anyways. Two out of three ain't bad!
Thank you so very much for your assistance, Tracy. As you can well imagine, I am very much looking forward to receiving those photos from Julie to pin up above my woodworking bench.
I'm sure you are, Sir! (actually, the pinning up of the photos was my added touch).
And, if it's not too much trouble, I would be delighted to hear from you, Tracy, by means of an email note to me via Julie (she ought not share your email address), and let me know your impressions and how Julie behaved during her spanking.
This was on the suggestion of a blog commenter that Sir approved of.
PS: Knowing how horny this girl becomes at the thought of spankings, part of her payment is that she is not allowed to "relieve any desires" the next day as she thinks back on her spanking. However, how YOU wish to deal with this horny young lady, or use her for your own pleasure after her spanking, I will leave entirely up to you. She may well blush at this revelation, but she has let me know that she would welcome any such advances from you. How you choose to act on this information, which might be either to take her up on it, to paddle her behind again for her wanton naughtiness, or both, or neither, is entirely up to you, Tracy. Have fun with her. She is your red bottomed submissive toy for the evening.
Oh gosh! Sir had a tamer version in there and I spiced it up. What if she doesn't swing that way at all? I can't get a good read - and I can usually tell. Hope she's not offended... Or she could pretend to be offended, and spank me. Oh crap... just realizing now this could mean EVEN MORE paddling!!! Would she do that? My butt would already be a flaming mess. Maybe she'll have mercy on my ass. Or, maybe, she'll paddle my super sensitive unmarked lily white thighs??? NO!!! Or... would she make an example of me and make me masturbate in front of her??? Oh Gosh.. with her dildo in my cunt??? Or my ass??? Or BOTH!!!! Fucking myself as I finger my clit?? Stupid horny slut, Julie! What are you setting yourself up for? The note says I must be her submissive toy for the evening. She could do any of that and I would HAVE TO obey. At least I know she wouldn't bring her husband in to have his way with me. We agreed on that at least. But in the state I'm in while writing this... that might not be so... b a d...
[marches you into the bathroom ] The language is going to be cleaned up young lady! [picks up the soap and lathers it up] OPEN NOW! [pushes soap in, leans you forward and jerks panties down] SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK. Stand there with that soap on your mouth until I come back!
[walks back in takes soap out] I warned you young lady. Watch your language. [Hugs you smacks your bottom] Bed, young lady!A few days later he asked,
Have you forwarded the instructions to Tracy yet young lady?Yup! Worried that if I send that ahead, something would "come up" to cancel it from her end!
No. Thinking I will surprise her with it day of. Watch her read it from a printout. She can't cancel if I'm right there. Just having her read it will be so freakin' embarrassing!!!! Especially the last part!
Then next day, Sir felt the need to taunt me...
Soo much closer to having that bottom torn up young lady. Reach back and feel that bottom. It wont feel that way soon !
Oh fuck yes, Sir.
If she goes hard like we asked, and doubles it up to 48 or even 72?????!!!??? I haven't felt the paddle yet. Will 48 hard ones blister my bum, Sir?
Yes, if she applies it properly. And next time you use the f word with dad you will get your mouth soaped young lady! Is Daddy clear!
Oops, yes sir, sorry sir, I do have a bit of a potty mouth on email.
I am afraid of my paddling, sir! For real. But I promise I will take every stroke given and not ask for it to stop no matter what. And that's what scares me. And I know Tracy, and how she said it when she said she'd do it. I am in for it. Especially once she reads that note! OMG, I've given david paddlings like that, and it messes up HIS ass, and mine is like a total virgin ass! I wonder if I'll cry. I probably will. And Tracy won't stop if I do, I know it, she has a determined streak. She'll just be all "you asked for it. Suck it up, princess". I'm such an idiot! Plus I will be TOTALLY BARE draped over Tracy's knee. OMG. I mean breasts, pussy, bottom hole, everything. I think I'll wax before. Should I wax? Is that too much? I want to be pretty for her, but I don't want to be a total slut. I guess if I wax I'll look a lot more like Daddy's little girl!He's right. Darn him!
This whole thing is doing a number on me!
I think Strict Julie has met Strict Daddy and it flusters her a bit because she likes it and isn't sure why. The internal struggle goes on!
For comparison purposes, here is my ass as of right now...
Ohhhh... that won't last. Not when Tracy gets the paddle out...
Is this what I'm headed for???
I'm going to be one sorry red bottomed girl!
Upended and spanked bare over her knee like a sassy10 yr old.
What will she see of me as I'm jackknifed over her knee?
Will this be the end result?
I will not get away without a good blistering, I'm convinced of it. It will serve me right. How many times have I subjected my sweet david to this treatment, leaving his buns a total mess.
How can I both dread what's coming up, and yet be so excited at the same time??? I absolutely, positively, don't want it to happen. What sane woman would want her ass blistered like this??? Be humiliated like this??? And my poor butt has never even been spanked hard before, not even by hand. And I'm diving straight into the deep end of an intense paddling???? Am I nuts????
But I soooo want it to happen....
So waiting in anticipation. So confused...