Tuesday, October 25

Julie in for a Severe Paddling! (part 2)

Sorry for the click bait, but the event anticipated in Julie in for a Severe Paddling! (part 1) still has not happened. We're trying to arrange something for next week, likely Tuesday. So there will definitely be a part 3 coming soon! I am going through with it, knowing that is a very good chance I will wind up like the naked girl in the photo below, undergoing a severe paddle blistering from my girl friend Tracy.

While I have considerable experience dishing it out to my man, this will be my first real experience being on the receiving end. I simply do not know the experience level of my friend, and I enjoy the anticipation of not knowing. When I asked her over the phone if she was willing and able to dole out the required hard paddling, she responded (quite gleefully from her tone I might add!), "Don't you worry. I'll paddle your butt real good. You won't be sitting after I'm done."

Now, this may be a joking bluster on her part. If she lacks experience she won't know how hard is hard, and being a sane person might underestimate that, as has been my (personal) experience on my journey on the topside. On the other hand, my butt is pretty virginal (in the spanking sense - don't ask otherwise!), so it may not take a lot either...

Our plan, detailed below, is to give Tracy a letter from Sir with some additional requirements, tips and details that ought to make her more comfortable spanking harder (and still safely) if she wants to. More fun if it appears to come from him. For example, in the letter he requests that I be completely bare naked during my spanking. Given she has no problem spanking me bare butt, I doubt the additional nudity will be a problem? But at any rate, with this letter it gives us an easy out, as in "what a perv, ha ha, the spanks are going to be over your dress, of course! What does he take us for?!" Or she might just say (which I think is the path of least resistance): "It says strip. So strip."

I have been warned by some experienced and concerned readers not to overly build up my expectations. Not to let my fantasies run too wild on what might happen, and then be disappointed by what actually does. I know it's well meaning, but I 'kinda reject that thinking. I am having an incredible, humbling experience imagining the worst! This is the "fun part" (if you call that funny churning butterfly feeling in the pit of my tummy "fun", which I think I do). That, "Oh no, she might actually..."

I am bi-sexual, but do not have a tremendous amount of experience with women as compared to men. With women, it's like I'm a teenager again, experiencing sex for the first times. So I get these puppy love moments, as I am feeling now for Tracy. So my first "real" spanking and these puppy love sexual feelings are all churning together in my tummy.

That's surely what it's like for a man as well. This overlay of sexual excitement, dominance from their partner, submission from themselves, and spanking pain. What a confused jumble! I have never quite experienced this before now, which is why I am reveling in the anticipation.

My expectations for the actual event? Anything goes! It will be an experience regardless and I am going in with a fully open mind, body, and soul, and we'll just have to see, now won't we?

Picking up the narrative from where I left off in the previous installment, with my phone call with Tracy, I wrote Sir back, and recounted my conversation with her, ending with,
So OMG! A girl's 'gonna do it.
I get into such shenanigans. Thank you, sir!
Good girl.  Is there going to be anymore whining about this spanking young lady?
Oh no Sir!
I'm very happy that my pretty friend will spank me.
(Although I may be sorry, and sore, afterwards!)
I fully expect that u had better be sore and sorry young lady
Then he got another idea..
After you have been soundly paddled the next day will be spent in a pleated skirt no panties. Every time you sit it will be bare bottom to seat. And you are forbidden to play in any way touching yourself.
Oh dear... pleated skirt, no panties, after a blistering???

 Sitting on my bare blistered bottom???

What if someone finds out???

But I have to do as Sir instructs, or at least try...
That is very hot, Sir!
You bring out the subby in me...
The day after my upcoming paddling, which I fully expect will blister my butt, I will wear a skirt, no panties, and sit on my sore bare tail. And I'll try very very hard to not play with myself, though I don't know how successful I will be...
If you fail you will be punished again.  If you really want to understand submission you have to experience it. You Will NOT relieve your desire.
A few days later I wrote again. I'd been thinking about this paddling from Tracy, orchestrated by Sir, a lot,
I still haven't heard that the paddle has arrived. I'll reach out today to ask, though I made her promise to text me as soon as she got it.

Feeling very nervous about my paddling!!! Not least because it will be this friend of mine administering it that I've never acted out on anything sexual with before. It might wind up in bed! I hope so... You only said no touching myself or relief the NEXT day. Is getting my pussy licked by a girl the day of my paddling ok???
I think it would be less awkward if you wrote me an email saying something like, "In exchange for the paddle, I expect...". That way I can share that with her and it won't be me "begging for it", it will be you. I can tell her I gave my word of honour to carry it out in exchange for my paddle, and we can laugh about it and how "pervy" you are (in a good way! It's a compliment when it comes from me, sir!). And then she's 'gonna have to do it.
In the email you could be more prescriptive with her on my paddling. Like,warm up or not before? Positioning. How undressed? How hard (hard, I hope! I want to feel it, and she will probably need encouragement to go hard enough). Corner time before or after? Position for the photo. What my butt should look like in the photo to satisfy you that I was properly paddled (maybe just "Seriously marked up or you'll be doing it again" so she knows she won't be doing me any favors by going light). Whatever you want. I want to feel that submissiveness, sir. And I doubt she has much experience and I don't want to be the one telling her what to do!

Thank you!
Sir wrote the first draft quickly. And he specified a number of additional indignities. I "unfortunately" had to keep all of those in the note! We went back and forth on the right tone and wording in the note to Tracy, but we kept all the activities that Sir had required, of course. We settled on the following. I'll add my initial reactions as I read Sir's note for the first time inline in dark red.
From: Sir
To: Tracy
Re. The paddling of Julie
First of all, let me say thank you, Tracy, for agreeing to extract my payment from Julie's little butt. I do not know your experience level in administering a spanking to a young lady such as Julie. In case you are new to it, below are some suggestions. Of course, please feel free to do whatever and only as much as you are comfortable with. Julie has already agreed to the strength and number of strokes, and to whatever additional instructions I choose, which are as follows.

1) Tell her to remove her clothing. ALL OF IT. If she is shy about it or slow about it, a sharp hand smack to her upper thighs will suffice to motivate her.
Oh crap. I didn't know Sir would make me strip naked!!! I thought it would be just panties demurely lowered?? And then being hurried along by Tracy with slaps to my thighs if I don't go quick enough??? and Sir KNOWS how sensitive my thighs are... This is going to be absolutely humiliating...
2) Put her into the corner for 10 minutes, by the clock, to contemplate her fate. Take a pic of her in the corner as a "Before".
What....!!!???  Naked corner time? Like a little freakin' girl!!! Arghhhh! I'm Strict Julie. I don't DO corner time!!! I MAKE people do corner time! Boo hoo.
Imagine me standing like this, completely nude, nose in the corner, punished like a child with a timeout, for ten whole minutes. tick, tick, tick, as Tracy shakes her head at this silly little girl while contemplating what she will do to her silly little bottom after the timeout is up...
3) Then please open the package containing the paddle while she is still in the corner, and prepare the room for her spanking. I suggest a good straight back chair. I'm sure she will hate being spanked bare over the knee like a sassy 10 yr old.
How absolutely humiliating. I'm not a sassy 10 yr old and don't want to appear that way to my friend...

4) Call her out of her corner and put her across your knee. A good hand spanking as a warm up is necessary to get her attention.
Totally bare naked across her knee. Oh no!
I guess a hand spanking warm-up is good and bad. I was hoping for a hand spanking to warm me up before the paddle. But it's kind of open ended. What if Tracy goes nuts???
Then I'll be a sorry red-bottomed girl even before the paddle comes out!!!!
5) Once you have her full attention, then start in with the paddle. I expect the end result to be a very very red butt. A good sign of a job well done is tears. I suggest 24 sound strokes. HOWEVER that is MY due. You may feel free to add up to double if you feel necessary to take your "pound of flesh" as well.
What??? "Add up to double???" Does that mean she can ADD another 48??? On top of my 24? That's... that's... 72 paddle spanks!!!! Where did that come from. Oh Shit! If she takes Sir up on it, I WILL be in tears, and my butt WILL be blistered! What did I get myself into??? But I agreed to take what Sir and Tracy choose to dish out...

6) After you are sufficiently satisfied that the paddle has been paid for IN FULL, and that you too have been compensated for your time, please then take a picture of her over your knee still with the paddle laying in the small of her back.
Expected that. How embarrassing to have to ask her to take that photo.

7) She should then be put back in the corner bare bottom for 15 min or so. This will help her compose herself.
I wonder if 5 minutes still qualifies as "or so?" I wonder what my butt will look like?
The next day she will be required to wear a dress and no underwear and to sit on only hard wooden chairs on her blistered bare bottom.
Did Sir have to tell her that?
Please understand that she has agreed to pay for her new paddle in this manner, and has agreed that if the pictures do not show a sufficiently well-blistered bottom that I will be requiring her to do it again. So you WILL NOT be doing her a favor by going light. I expect her to know and feel this for several days.
Yes. I asked for that sentiment. But that was when I thought I was only getting 24 max! I am so done for... she will BLISTER me.

I'm sure Julie does not want you to know this, but she wants me to "insist on" you making sure it it is a "for real" intense and severe paddling, where you ignore any crying, pleas for mercy, kicking, yelling, and so on during this punishment. She is too embarrassed to ask you this herself directly. Assuming you are comfortable with it, please ensure at the time that this is indeed what she still wants, and then I suggest you give her exactly what she's asking for.
I actually wrote that part of this note. What a dope I am! I better play safe, though, and make her more comfortable...

If you confine the intense paddling to her lower butt cheeks, the plump undersides of her ass, there will be no chance of injuring her. The photo below shows the safe area (and the correct results).
If you spank where indicated, you may feel confident in paddling hard but safely. And she will need it. If you are new to this, then harder than you imagine. For further safety's sake, though, I must insist that Julie have a "safeword", which is "Red". If she uses her safeword you must stop, of course, and check-in with her.
There. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Well consensual and safe anyways. Two out of three ain't bad!

Thank you so very much for your assistance, Tracy. As you can well imagine, I am very much looking forward to receiving those photos from Julie to pin up above my woodworking bench.
I'm sure you are, Sir! (actually, the pinning up of the photos was my added touch).

And, if it's not too much trouble, I would be delighted to hear from you, Tracy, by means of an email note to me via Julie (she ought not share your email address), and let me know your impressions and how Julie behaved during her spanking.
This was on the suggestion of a blog commenter that Sir approved of.


PS: Knowing how horny this girl becomes at the thought of spankings, part of her payment is that she is not allowed to "relieve any desires" the next day as she thinks back on her spanking. However, how YOU wish to deal with this horny young lady, or use her for your own pleasure after her spanking, I will leave entirely up to you. She may well blush at this revelation, but she has let me know that she would welcome any such advances from you. How you choose to act on this information, which might be either to take her up on it, to paddle her behind again for her wanton naughtiness, or both, or neither, is entirely up to you, Tracy. Have fun with her. She is your red bottomed submissive toy for the evening.
Oh gosh! Sir had a tamer version in there and I spiced it up. What if she doesn't swing that way at all? I can't get a good read - and I can usually tell. Hope she's not offended... Or she could pretend to be offended, and spank me. Oh crap... just realizing now this could mean EVEN MORE paddling!!! Would she do that? My butt would already be a flaming mess. Maybe she'll have mercy on my ass. Or, maybe, she'll paddle my super sensitive unmarked lily white thighs??? NO!!! Or... would she make an example of me and make me masturbate in front of her??? Oh Gosh.. with her dildo in my cunt??? Or my ass??? Or BOTH!!!! Fucking myself as I finger my clit?? Stupid horny slut, Julie! What are you setting yourself up for? The note says I must be her submissive toy for the evening. She could do any of that and I would HAVE TO obey. At least I know she wouldn't bring her husband in to have his way with me. We agreed on that at least. But in the state I'm in while writing this... that might not be so... b a d...
So when Sir reviewed this blog prior to my posting it, he told me there was too much sex in there, that I had a filthy mouth and used too many swear words, and he wanted me to tone it down and not swear like a sailor. But I can't have my self-expression curtailed like that... I guess I will just have to suffer Daddy's consequences...
[marches you into the bathroom ] The language is going to be cleaned up young lady!   [picks up the soap and lathers it up]  OPEN NOW! [pushes soap in, leans you forward and jerks panties down] SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK SMACK. Stand there with that soap on your mouth until I come back!
[walks back in takes soap out] I warned you young lady. Watch your language.  [Hugs you smacks your bottom] Bed, young lady!
A few days later he asked,
Have you forwarded the instructions to Tracy yet young lady?

No. Thinking I will surprise her with it day of. Watch her read it from a printout. She can't cancel if I'm right there. Just having her read it will be so freakin' embarrassing!!!! Especially the last part!
Yup! Worried that if I send that ahead, something would "come up" to cancel it from her end!

Then next day, Sir felt the need to taunt me...
Soo much closer to having that bottom torn up young lady.  Reach back and feel that bottom. It wont feel that way soon ! 😈😈😈😈
Oh fuck yes, Sir.
If she goes hard like we asked, and doubles it up to 48 or even 72?????!!!??? I haven't felt the paddle yet. Will 48 hard ones blister my bum, Sir?
Yes, if she applies it properly. And next time you use the f word with dad you will get your mouth soaped young lady! Is Daddy clear!
Oops, yes sir, sorry sir, I do have a bit of a potty mouth on email.
I am afraid of my paddling, sir! For real. But I promise I will take every stroke given and not ask for it to stop no matter what. And that's what scares me. And I know Tracy, and how she said it when she said she'd do it. I am in for it. Especially once she reads that note! OMG, I've given david paddlings like that, and it messes up HIS ass, and mine is like a total virgin ass! I wonder if I'll cry. I probably will. And Tracy won't stop if I do, I know it, she has a determined streak. She'll just be all "you asked for it. Suck it up, princess". I'm such an idiot! Plus I will be TOTALLY BARE draped over Tracy's knee. OMG. I mean breasts, pussy, bottom hole, everything. I think I'll wax before. Should I wax? Is that too much? I want to be pretty for her, but I don't want to be a total slut. I guess if I wax I'll look a lot more like Daddy's little girl!
This whole thing is doing a number on me!

I think Strict Julie has met Strict Daddy and it flusters her a bit because she likes it and isn't sure why. The internal struggle goes on! 😁 
He's right. Darn him!

For comparison purposes, here is my ass as of right now...
Isn't it all smooth and white?

Ohhhh... that won't last. Not when Tracy gets the paddle out...

Is this what I'm headed for???
Spanked bare naked across Tracy's knee? She'll be fully clothed. And me completely naked. My tits will hang down just like that.

I'm going to be one sorry red bottomed girl!

Upended and spanked bare over her knee like a sassy10 yr old.

What will she see of me as I'm jackknifed over her knee?

Will this be the end result?
Will she make me pose like this for my pic????? Everything on display?

I will not get away without a good blistering, I'm convinced of it. It will serve me right. How many times have I subjected my sweet david to this treatment, leaving his buns a total mess.

How can I both dread what's coming up, and yet be so excited at the same time??? I absolutely, positively, don't want it to happen. What sane woman would want her ass blistered like this??? Be humiliated like this??? And my poor butt has never even been spanked hard before, not even by hand. And I'm diving straight into the deep end of an intense paddling???? Am I nuts????

But I soooo want it to happen....

So waiting in anticipation. So confused...

Friday, October 21

Reader Reactions to Julie's Upcoming Paddling

A number of my "loyal" (hah!) readers have taken a certain joy in contemplating my upcoming paddling, as you can read in the comments on Julie in for a Severe Paddling! (part 1). There have also been some emails. The most successful is from a man named D. It really brought home the reality of what I am facing in a tummy squooshing manner.

Miss Julie, I've followed your blog for awhile. I know you enjoy dishing out the embarrassment, but wondered if you would ever experience it yourself. Well, your face is blushing hot now, isn't it, young lady? You must know there is no way to be naked over a woman's knee for a strict paddling and maintain your dignity at the same time. You have something to think about.

I see you in that position, and it's a vision of intense embarrassment. I can taste it. I feel embarrassed for you. Strict Julie, the one who has ruled over her husband with supreme dominance, has subjected him with glee to such suffering, is now bare, upturned, and exposed. You'll be totally naked, right? Your pretty bottom will certainly be bare. Have you ever clenched your sensitive bottom cheeks in anticipation of a punishment spanking? You should be clenching them in dread.

Finally it's going to happen. Can you believe it? You're getting a SPANKING! When the time comes, you'll be asking yourself again and again, is this really happening? Am I actually being punished like a naughty little brat? You have good reason to be afraid of your Daddy's paddle. I hear maple burns. You'll never be more aware of your bottom being bare. Do you think you'll be able to hold up over Tracy's knee? I see the big, bad Strict Julie over her lap, and it is not ending well for you.

I'm actually a little concerned and wonder if you really know what you've gotten yourself into. Your delicate skin has never even tasted the hardwood. I mean tasted it HARD. 24 good hard licks with nothing between the paddle your Daddy made and your bare. A wood-fire paddling not under your control! This is really long overdue, young lady. I think it's about time you were not in control. Time for some frantic bottom wiggling. And some tears. When was the last time Strict Julie cried like a thoroughly repentant little girl?

I would love to see you getting your red bottomed paddle spanking from Tracy. She will be in control. Will she take good care of a tingling hot girl after her spanking? Being vulnerable under control is such a different experience than what you're used to.
Oh Golly Gosh! Well that 'sorta hit the nail on the head! I emailed back and thanked him for my teasing, and encouraged him to write more, which he did.
Anticipation is an important part of the experience. The butterflies in your tummy. The increased heart rate. That paddle is going to sting like nothing you've felt before, and you'll sit on pins and needles waiting for your punishment as part of the punishment. You're feeling what many boys and girls have felt in this situation. It's a humbling feeling. It should be sexually exciting, a push and pull of the dread you have for the paddle, thinking about how you will be exposed with the blood flowing to your sensitive nether regions. Before and after a blister spanking is a time for strong arousal.
I wrote back noting that he said "before and after", but how about "during"? Is that just pure fiery hell, or is there arousal during? As much as I spank my husband, I don't know the answer to that. He responded.
I hear there are some people who can be aroused during a hard paddle spanking. I believe it's rare, and expect that it takes some building up a tolerance and acclimation to that level of pain. If one craves that pain, then their masochism is driving their experience. Even for someone who isn't a hardcore masochist, the excitement surrounding the activity of being punished releases chemicals in the body that can make the pain more tolerable.

You won't know what it's like for you until it happens. I expect that it will be no different than what most people experience. If Tracy means business, then during the spanking I think you'll be angry with yourself that you ever agreed to such a thing. Then you'll have a burn on your bottom that will be uncomfortable for awhile. That burn for some, or the soreness that remains even longer, is an arousal of an erogenous zone, but you don't know yet how that works for you. What drives you, though, is the eroticism of the event. Certain aspects of it have that effect on you. Those who really crave that arousal take the unpleasant spanking that goes with it. Being a sorry, embarrassed little girl is inherently unpleasant. If your spanking is a success, then you will still be glad you went through the ordeal.

Considering that you are a Dom, and generally do not fantasize about being spanked, I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't want any more punishment paddlings after this one. That intrigues me because this isn't the usual sub getting spanked because that's who they are and what they want. There's a realism here that is different. You're experiencing a spanking, now the anticipation, eventually the consequences and after effects, more the way it is experienced under *real* circumstances. That's exciting.
Yes, it feels extremely real to me. I will be spanked, really, against a large part of my will, with this tiny part of my will pushing me into it. I wrote back telling him how insightful I thought his comments were, and how they really captured what I felt, expressing it better than I could. I asked  if I could publish his emails here, and if he had anything additional to add, which he did.
Thank you for the compliments, Julie. It appears we have similar feelings about what a spanking experience can be. You can use in your blog something I write if you feel it belongs there.

I think this anticipation phase of the spanking is the best part actually. You get to live in that role and the mindset that accompanies it. Even before the paddling, you feel naked. What is it like for you to have a Daddy now and be under his control? And to be facing the punishment you're facing? It's certainly 180 degrees away from normality for you and, as such, even more highly embarrassing. Your attitude and actions must respect the reality of your circumstances, where you are not in control. You are experiencing submission and vulnerability.

Are you embarrassed to know that the best thing you can do for yourself now is to be as polite and obedient as you can be? That is generally how boys and girls act when they know they are getting a paddling. You don't dare earn more licks, and if you can demonstrate convincingly that you want to be the best behaved young lady you can be, your Daddy may decide to be more lenient with you. At least that's the hope many have had. For the time being, forget all about being a strong, dominant woman, and face the reality that you are extremely vulnerable facing your first blistering with the paddle. This is no time to be bratty or try to show you're somehow above the over-the-knee spanking you have coming. Though I am enjoying the predicament you're in, and would be noting with pleasure every detail of your exposure and comeuppance, if I was there I'd want to hold your hand and try to help you get through it. These are moments when you're not the strong one but rather the one needing to be taken care of. Your nerves will be raw going into it, and you could be quite emotionally upset by the time it's over. Didn't Tracy promise you won't be sitting when she's done?
Yes, she certainly did, but I don't know how serious she was about that. If she's not a latent spanko she's liable to give me a few weak swats and joke about how I won't be sitting. I don't actually want that. I want a punishment paddling. I want to feel like D describes above, that I just know the spanking will be impossible to take, but that if I don't behave, and don't submit completely to her will, it will be even worse, and even more humiliating for me. For example, her husband called in to see my shame, my bared bottom upraised and my bared breasts dangling as Tracy spanks the brat. Both of them laughing at my naked submission across his wife's knee.

Oh shit!

D wrote some more after I posted the first version of this blog:
Julie, I see the possibility of having John, the husband, there is causing you angst. I completely understand how you do not want him there to see your spanking with the paddle. This is only normal. Of course we don't want witnesses to our punishment. Things are bad enough, aren't they? The emotions should already be plenty for you to deal with. Having a witness there, especially a male, may be too much humiliation for a first experience. If I was Tracy's husband, I can assure you I would want to be there. If he's like me, he'll walk around during the paddling to catch from every angle your naked performance over Tracy's lap. Your facial expressions will be dramatic and unforgettable. From the perspective In front of where Tracy is seated, you'll be presented like a child over her Mommy's knee, and the view will be the full extent of your nudity which, as you write, will include your upturned bare bottom and your bare breasts dangling. Despite having good reason to be proud of your body, this is total exposure in front of another woman's husband. Is that what you want? There should be some frantic movement during the punishment, as if you are performing a bizarre erotic dance for the pleasure of your sexual partner. Do you want him to see that? The prime view, though, will be the display you present from behind. I especially enjoy the kicking feet and desperately wiggling behind and, of course, with all that thrashing around, I don't need to tell you what will be revealed.

As it is happening, you likely won't be in a frame of mind to be concerned about showing your bare pussy and naughty little bottom hole. So you should make it clear that John should not be there. Otherwise, it will only cause you more anxiety now, and after you've settled down from the paddling, you'll have to deal with the shame of knowing he saw everything! We get an erotic charge from the idea of public humiliation, but the reality of it can be more devastating than anticipated. For a first experience, an intensely private affair, sharing your abject vulnerability only with Tracy may be best for you. On the other hand, your Daddy is the one to decide what you need and, if not him, then you are still under Tracy's control. When she tells you something, you're going to say with a red face, "Yes, Ma'am," even should she inform you that John will be present. She may use even the slightest hint of rebellion on your part as an excuse to add the extra punishment of a witness. If it's decided that you are to be paddled in full view of John or other interested party, then what are you going to do? That is the nature of not being in control and where your fragile fate is in the hands of another. This could be a memory that will make you blush for the rest of your days.
I am thinking John will likely not be invited, as that is what I requested, but I have a strange craving to have him invited in to watch just as D describes above. As I think of this scenario, I get wet. Very wet. It's the humiliation. I'm starting to "get it".

My paddling is probably not this week coming up, but next. We are still trying to arrange it. I will post one more preparatory blog entry and then the main event (hopefully!)

Thursday, October 20

Julie in for a Severe Paddling! (part 1)

Oh Shit! How do I get myself into these situations??!!! I am going to have to go over a woman's knee, totally butt naked, and be paddled hard, likely to tears. I'll probably wind up looking like this...

And it will be SUPER embarrassing for me!

I know this is just the sort of blog post some of you just LOVE to see. Julie having to take what she oh so gleefully dishes out to her long suffering hubby. This NEVER happens. A spanking for me that I do not feel totally in control of. I've asked for spankings before, but I'm always 100% in charge, and they were never too hard. This time, I'm voluntarily giving up that control, and I'm due for a genuine blistering.

The reason I've never taken on the subby role is mainly because I usually get very panicked not being in control. There are some things from my past that are no longer relevant and should not still be impacting me, but they are. But I think I need to get over it. So I'm starting with a small but significant first step. I'm asking a woman to paddle me, very likely to tears.

Women in dommy roles don't elicit the same panicky response in me. I got spanked a couple of times before with some female Pro Dommes we played with, and that always was ok. And I have been spanked by david, but he knows all about me and my little panics, and is super sensitive and super delicate with me. Acting subby over email with a guy does not trigger any of the same sort of thing, fortunately. A real heavy duty Dom scene with a man I am not quite ready for yet!

This started on that Daddy Spanks Daughter! post where I "pretended" to be subby with a 'fella I met online. We fell into Daddy and daughter roles (everyone here knows all about my daddy fantasies!). I did it ostensibly to get ideas for a roleplay scene with david. Well it was mission accomplished, and I certainly did get the material I wanted, and we did have a great roleplay as described, but I do have to admit that I fibbed a bit in implying that was the only reason I behaved subby for him. In fact, it was turning me on, and not only picturing myself in the Dommy role, but also >*blush*< in the subby role as well.

This 'fella is a wood-working guy. On his first email introducing himself he offered to make me a paddle.
I am an avid wood worker and have made a few custom paddles as well. Would you like a customized paddle m'lady?
I took him up on it, of course, thinking of using it on my husband.
What a lovely hobby! I would love for you to make me a paddle!!!! What size/shape/material/holes? david will be soooo sore!!!
I will build you one. Do you have a preference as to shape and size? Would you like the "extended warranty"? If yes then I have to test it out on your lovely bottom😁
I'm thinking more OTK-sized, so no more than a foot in total length? But nice thick hardwood. Maybe a half inch thick? Would that work? Beyond that... surprise me!
Yes that will work. Not going to get you to take the extended warranty huh.  I have so much trouble getting women to go with it.  Sighs.  Lololololol😂
Don't worry, I'll test it out very well on my husband's backside!
But but but ..... no fun for me! I will need a address to mail it to though.
Sure. I have a good anonymous one you can send it to.
I have a friend who has a service where you can ship to a US mailing address and it gets forwarded to her here in Canada. So nice and anonymous way to get it to me.I txt'd her trying to get the address. She txt'd back saying she would get it right away, and then she didn't for awhile. Grrrrr.
It's drying now.  I will apply another coat of lemon oil today.  The center is maple, it has an exotic hardwood laminate on both sides. Nothing major fancy in shape.  Get me the mailing address and I will mail it Monday.
He finished making my paddle for me and sent me a photo of it.
The color is the natural color of the wood .  That is not dyed or tinted

It looks beautiful. And wicked!! Well he had held up his end, and I still didn't have that address, and Daddy was getting angry with me...
Ok young lady (in Dom Dad mode today).   I need an address.  Get it to me so I can mail this!
Yes Daddy. I'll bug my friend again right now!
If I have to drive up there you will be a sore sorry girl! 
and then next day...
Ok young lady, that is a dozen on your bare bottom over my knee. I would hurry up before the number doubles. Dad does not like being kept waiting and you know better.
Well that sort of talk, actually, turned me on. I had, justly I thought, earned myself a dozen paddle strokes. Felling submissive, knowing I earned that paddling, I wrote back accordingly.
Oh pooh!
On my bare bottom? Daddy, I'm way too old for that!
And 12 is WAY too many. Not with that paddle! Please Daddy.
But just my skirt up, ok? Please can I keep my panties up? PLEASE!!!
Nope lil lady bare bottom and as of Wednesday it will be 24!  And corner time.  Get going girl or that bottom is going to glow in the dark. [Pulled over my knees, skirt lifted .. panties slowly peeled down and the feel of that paddle rubbing your bottom.] Then ...... lesson learned hard young lady!
I had decided I would take the paddling. And for real. But 12 seemed too few. I thought I would see if I could brat it up and earn a few more...
Yeah, well... what if I say no? huh? What if I put up a fight? I'm pretty strong you know... I'll bite you if you try!
Dad's been bit before, and I think you will submit because you know you've been naughty and deserve it. Now stop being sassy and get me that address young lady.
How frustrating for a subby! He did not "take the bait."
Yes sir... but it's my friend who needs the spanking!
That can be arranged, However you are my main concern. And your cute little bottom is already in trouble. Now get me an address. Friday will be 36 and grounded, no date Friday or Saturday night!
Woah! Not sure about 36!!! Not with that beast of a paddle. Fortunately, my friend came through and saved my ass (literally!)
Got it! Here's the address: [...]
I will ask husband to try the paddle out on me... skirt up, panties down... 12 times...
I will send it tomorrow. And I would like to see your pretty red bottom with the paddle beside you if that is acceptable.
Yes Sir! You do deserve a photo of my spanked cheeks with your paddle resting atop them for your patience, and as payment. In fact, I might post a blog article about the whole episode and include the photo there! Thank you for the paddle gift, Daddy! Excited for it to come in the mail!
He then mailed it, and I teased him for including his return address on there, which I immediately Google Earthed like a nosy parker. Nice spread! But apparently you can't ship parcels without a return address, so I was, according to him, just being sassy,
As for return address, you cannot mail these days without a return address. So no you're not too smart young lady, You're too sassy now. That will cost you 15 min in the corner bare bottom young lady.
No please Daddy! Not bare bottom in the corner! Please! Someone might seeeee!
You better move young lady, or you're liable to end up with you over pillows completely bare ass up high and a thick leather belt being applied. That lesson would stick with you for days young lady...
I'll move, Sir. No need to get your belt out!
But I don't think you fully realize, Daddy, how humiliating it would be for a grown up girl like me to have to strip to bare in front of her Daddy, and then to have to bend over pillows like that. You would see EVERYTHING there was to see of me! I've looked at myself like that in the mirror. You would see my pussy and my bottom hole! And then with the belt licking I'm sure my legs would kick and spread and then I would be gaping wide open for you to see.
That's.. sniffle... just not... sniffle... right!
Yes, I was getting into it. These exchanges excited me. And of course he knew that from the tone of my replies, so he would randomly throw in stuff out of the blue into my email, like at night,
Bed time young lady!  Now!  March!  [Smacks your bottom]
And then in the morning,
[Walks in your room carrying the paddle. Flips the covers back and your nighty up.]
Young lady I have had enough of your sass and attitude!
Now you get out of bed and get ready for your classes like I told you to.
You have 15 minutes before I come back up here and we start over!
Actually, reading stuff like this made me blush, and flush, and get a little wet, truth be told. It was warm and comfy having a Daddy again, and one who spanks to boot!

Then a few days later from him:
Have you checked with your friend today on the paddle?
She'll tell me soon as she gets it, Sir. When she gets it I'll go over to visit her and ask her for twelve good and hard paddle swats to my bare butt while across her knee. And a photo of my bare red ass with the paddle on the small of my back. Your payment, Sir. Is 12 adequate, Sir, or do I need more for being slow and sassy?
So, at the time I wrote that, getting a spanking from my friend was still wishful thinking. I still had not talked with her, only txt'd. She's a work colleague of mine from a previous job. Her name is Tracy. We became friends and we stay in touch. She's married. She's also very attractive. And I sensed quite "in charge". I have a bit of a thing for women as some of you blog readers know, and I for sure would not have minded getting it on with Tracy. She did not know at all about my spanking life, and I never made a pass at her or anything, but I was even then wondering if a spanking from her could be arranged, or maybe even more...
12 is appropriate for now, however if I do not see your bare bottom in the corner for being sassy immediately the number will be doubled!!!
I wanted more. 12 was for wimps. So I decided again to play the brat and see what happened.
Well I'm not standin' in no stinkin' corner!
Excuse me young lady!  Fine!  12 on your bare bottom and 12 on your upper thighs at the sit spot!! You're little ass is going to be so blistered...  you are in so much trouble!
Ooops!!!! I didn't think I could take 12 on the thighs!!! The perils of being a subby! Little bratty julie had some quick tap dancing she needed doing!
Daddy, sir, I wanted to first say, I am really really sorry for being sassy with you and for being so mouthy and disrespectful. I am also very sorry about taking so long to get you that address, sir. It's not my friend's fault. It's my fault.
Just, please sir, not another 12 on my bare thighs sir. Please! that's a really, really sensitive area on me, and I just know I could not take it, sir. I'll go over the knee sir, even in my birthday suit, sir, if that is what you require. And I'll take 12 paddle strokes to my bare bottom. Or even more, sir, if that's what you require. I'm just... It's just... not on my upper thighs, please! PLEASE! I'm really, really sorry, sir... I beg of you, sir. Please! Anything else. Please!
respectfully, and penitently,
your julie
Fortunately, the brat got her way. We pretty little girls know how to wrap our Daddies around our little fingers!
I will grant you your request this time young lady. However it had better stop or I will use the strap on those thighs.  24 on your bare bottom over the knees. If it is not a sufficient spanking when I check it will be repeated. Am I CLEAR!
Thank you, Daddy
I appreciate your remorseful attitude, I hope you mean it and have learned your lesson. In doing so you admitted telling me a lie. You blamed your friend. Now faced with punishment you admit the truth. Yes you will get the full 24 on your bare bottom. If I hear any more whining you will be sending me an audio of your spanking as well as the picture.  Understood?
Yes, Sir. Understood.
24... Gulp! That's a lot more than 12! Not sure I had thought that fully through. Ok, 24 it was. Now how to get Tracy to do it? I was wondering how I was going to approach the spanking thing with her, when what did you know but she called me. We caught up a bit and then she said she needed to ask about the package. Her husband was on her about it. What was in it?  I told her it was a tad embarrassing. She asked me if it was legal, which is what was on her husband's mind. I assured her it was perfectly legal.

"Well what is it?" she asked.

"Do I have to say?' I asked with what I thought was a cute little pout and a whine. I wanted her to press me on it.

"What? Is it a dildo?" she asked. Whoa! good guess!

"No!" I said.

"You better just tell me. If you don't, I'll open it up anyways and John and I can see for ourselves when it gets here."

"Noooo! Don't let him see it!" I whined.

"Then you better tell me," she said. I think she's pretty naturally dommy!

I sighed and said, "fine, it's a paddle if you must know."

"What? Like a canoe paddle?" she asked, sounding mystified.

"No, silly. It's a spanking paddle." (blush, blush, blush!)

Then she laughed. She actually laughed out loud. "Who's gettin' spanked, little girl?"

I guess based on how reluctant I was to tell her, she figured it was me on the receiving end. But her "Who's gettin' spanked, little girl?" made me kind of flushed and excited.

"Well, it's usually my husband, but this time I have to 'pay for' the paddle by getting 24 swats myself first, on the bare butt, and a photo!"

"Interesting paddle shop you're dealing with," she said, "they don't take Visa?" ha ha

I explained to her how it was an online thing where I was exchanging emails with this guy I met on some forum and he offered to make me a paddle in exchange for the swats and the photo and I accepted.

She was surprised, and kind of scolded me, "You're telling me you're going to send some guy you don't even know, a picture of your bare butt in exchange for this paddle? And he's not going to come find you and rape you?"

"yes..." I said, sheepishly, "a picture of my paddled bare butt to be exact," I added, "and he's nice..."

"So who's doing the honours?" she asked coquettishly, "your husband?"

"well yes... unless you want to..." OMG!!!! So bad!

"Hmmmm..." I hear her pondering over the phone.

"Just you, not John," I added hastily. I was not quite ready for her husband to see my bare butt getting the paddling of a lifetime!

"Well I'd be happy to do the honours," she concluded. "But I do tell John everything."

"Fine, you can tell him," I said, "but he can't be there."

"Agreed. So I guess this will be my payment for you using my forwarding service, eh?"

"yes ma'am," I said. See? I know how to address a Dominant Woman!

"It'll be fun, paddling your little butt," she said.

Yummm! She said she'd enjoy it. And referred to my "little butt". That's kind of sexual, isn't it? I felt I needed to warn her one more time about what she was getting herself in for.

"It has to be 24 hard ones. Bare butt and across your knee according to him. And they need to be hard ones for the photo. Is that ok?"

"Don't you worry. I'll paddle your butt real good. You won't be sitting after I'm done."

HOLY SHIT!  What have I gotten myself into????

After that exchange, that was so exciting, I started sort of obsessing about it. At the very same time I wanted it to happen and didn't want it to happen!

Would this be her?
Will she take it seriously and really blister me? Do I want her to?

Will she insist I keep my panties up, regardless?
But no, Sir said bare bottom and I even told her that and she agreed.

But there's more than one way to bare a bottom...
Imagine if she did that? If she pulled my panty into my crack, splitting my pussy lips and my ass crack, wedging the material to rub hard against my clit and a-hole... OMG she would see and smell how wet my pussy was! It was humiliating to think about cumming while across her knee!!!

But no. Way more likely she'll lower them. Oh no... she's going to lower them!!!!
So embarrassing... When I think about this moment butterflies flutter in my tummy. Across her knee like a 6 yr old getting my panties lowered! She was a Woman. And I was going to be reduced to the status of bare bottomed little girl!

And then I'm 'gonna get paddled...
Is this going to be me??? Is that what a girl shows off when she gets a spanking??? Oh gosh.

Will we have some fun afterwards???

Or is this all the "fun" I'm going to be having?

(See follow-up Readers React)

Part 2 coming soon...

Saturday, October 15

Daddy Spanks Daughter!

So... I've been engaging in a very fun back and forth e-mail exchange with a male switch. For kicks, I fell into the role of his young adult daughter and he my Daddy, and I went all submissive on his ass! Why? I needed inspiration. I needed to know the words to use, the attitude to adopt when I was to punish my "young adult daughter", my husband david.

Yes, my intent was to play the Daddy role: jeans, cowboy boots, thick plaid shirt, heavy men's belt. I was going to force my husband, david, into the bratty daughter role: bra and panties, skirt, blouse, makeup. The offense was missing curfew last night, being seen making out with a boy in the car outside our house, and a general pattern of sassiness and disrespect that needed nipping in the bud.

I derived all sorts of inspiration from my email exchange, so thank you Sir! It's very funny how I get so turned on by these submissive exchanges. When I am acting the brat, or the penitent girl, I am imagining my husband in that role and relishing his submissiveness, and imagining myself in the top role, doling it out and gaining that respect. Even the "girl on bottom" and "man on top" turns me on, because I think of my husband as "the girl" and me as "the man" most of the time anyways when we play. So, I thought I'd illustrate this post entirely with "Daddy spanks grown Daughter" images, as there are no shortages at all of those, and girls make (and have!) wonderful bottoms.

For example, here's a lovely image of a daughter waiting for her parent to come upstairs and give her the paddling of a lifetime. She knows she has done wrong and must now face the music. How cruel, yet appropriate, for her to contemplate the instrument of her correction while she waits in her bedroom.

This young lady I imagine is receiving a spanking from her father. She is fortunate that he is only using his hand, and that she was allowed to keep her panties and top on for this punishment. She will not be so sassy anymore after this spanking. And notice that she is not going anywhere until the lesson has been learnt!

This girl is not so fortunate. Her offense called for a bare bottom spanking. She was told to get ready for bed and then Daddy came into her room, sat on her desk chair, pulled her over his lap, and amidst much girlish protesting lowered her pajamas to bare her bottom. How embarrassing for a girl to have her bare bottom seen and spanked by her Daddy!

If Daddy is very angry, he might just upend his daughter like in the above photo, bare her cheeks, and hand paddle her. This is the same position he used to change her diapers in. What a shame that now she needs to be spanked and paddled like this, so exposed.

This young lady above is clearly about to be spanked. To drive the point home, Daddy makes her wait for her spanking with her bare buns exposed.

Sometimes, to really drive the point home, a birthday suit spanking is the only thing that will do the job. Imagine a girl having to bare her breasts and pussy in front of her Daddy!!!!

This schoolgirl is clearly feeling the burn from Daddy's strap. And on her bare bottom! Hang onto those pillows, young lady, for dear life. This will be a strapping you will remember!

 This one had her buns spanked by Daddy's hand first across his knee. But daddy was not satsified with the attitude adjustment. He did not think a lesson was learned. So this daughter needed to go to her bedroom and bend over the pillows with her panties down waiting for daddy's strap to teach her what his hand could not.

For more serious offenses, such as lying or stealing, a more severe punishment is called for. The girl must remove her clothing and bend over for the belt or paddle. How humiliating that the girl will have to expose everything she so desperately wants to keep hidden from her Daddy!

Here is what the aftermath might look like. I tell you, naughty daughters are well advised to be on their best behaviour when they have a spanking Daddy!

After a serious spanking, a girl must do an extended timeout in the corner. In her birthday suit even to drive the lesson home. This girl will certainly think twice before lying to her daddy again about dating boys!

This one as well. Bare naked corner time after a strapping in the living room. Her exposed ass will serve as an object lesson for her brothers and sisters, and their friends, and knock her down a good peg or two. Show the boys those little titties, girl!

I don't know why, but I've always had this Daddy-Daughter "thing". I like to think about a daughter spanking her daddy, but equally about a daddy spanking his daughter, but with me in the Daddy role and my husband as my "daughter". Weird. Also, the thought of spanking girls does turn me on as well, as you can tell from my photo gathering expedition above!

So, I ran this role play past my husband and he was, of course, all in. It did not stop him from blushing like a schoolgirl as I dressed him and made up his face. He is still particularly embarrassed by the bra and breast forms. I also had him wear his white cotton patterned panties. I put him down in front of the TV, sitting straight, with the TV off as I went to change. He waited for me, knowing he was in trouble. Big trouble! In our scene, she had been caught the night before (a Friday night). Now it was Saturday afternoon, when the reckoning was going to occur. I decided to call her Emma.

I came into the room with the punishment paddle in hand.

"Emma! You are in a lot of trouble, young lady. Making out with a boy?!? Missing curfew!?! When is your curfew on a Friday night?" I asked.

"10pm, Sir," she answered.

"And what time did you get in the door?"

"11pm, Sir."

"That's right, 11pm. One full hour late. 60 minutes. 60 strokes of the paddle."

"Oh no, Sir, please!"

"I have been entirely too lax with you, missy. 60 strokes, and they're going to be on the bare."

"No Daddy! You can't! I'm grown up now! I haven't gotten a spanking since I was 12!"

"Exactly. And look what happens as a result. Sassiness. Disrespect. Breaking curfew. I am putting a stop to all of that young lady. Starting today. As well, you lied to me! You said you were going out last night to the movies with your girlfriends. Instead, I catch you alone in a car with a boy, making out."

"I wasn't lying, Daddy. I did go out with my friends. It's just Brad offered me a ride home is all..."

"Do you take me for a fool, girl? Are you allowed to date?"

"No Sir, but..."

"Shush! No buts about it. You lied to me. You were alone with a boy. And you were making out with him!"

"I'm sorry..."

"Not half as sorry as you're going to be for lying and dating without permission, young lady!"

"But Daddy! I'm practically a grown woman! I'm in College. All the girls in College date!"

"And if all the girls in College got themselves a venereal disease and got themselves pregnant you would do that as well?"


"Enough talk! I have had enough of your sass and attitude. Now stand up."

david stands and I sit on the sofa. I pull him forcefuly across my knee by the arm. I flip up his skirt and pull down is panties, baring his cheeks.

"No Daddy! Please! Please not bare!" he says as I lowered his panties to his knees.

"Yes, young lady. 60 paddle strokes on the bare for breaking curfew by 60 minutes. This bottom is going to glow in the dark before I'm done."

And with that I started spanking him with the paddle. The dialog above is probably not exact, as I'm going from memory, but that is the gist of it. We did play off each other back and forth like that. And I did get in some of those key "catch phrases" I picked up from my pen pal Daddy.

I did not go easy on my naughty daughter's ass. 60 hard strokes of the paddle to the bare ass is no joke. And I didn't even warm him up. I was going for authenticity, and I didn't think a real daddy would warm up his daughter's ass before her punishment. Too bad for her. Authenticity is a bitch!

"In the corner, young lady," I said after I had finished her sixty.

"Daddy no! Somebody will see! No!"

"Yes young lady. Bare bottom in corner, if someone sees that is too bad. I will not have your sassy attitude. Now get your bottom in the corner and I want to see it!"

I left him red-bummed and cornered for a few minutes. When I came back, my belt was coming off.

"That was for breaking curfew, Emma. You still need to be punished for the lying, disobedience, and misbehavior with a boy. A good belting should take care of that."

"No! Please Daddy! My bum is so sore already! And it wasn't a date!"

"Shush girl! Lying to me is the worst you could do.  I seriously hate being lied to. From now on that will end up with you in your bedroom, over pillows, completely bare, ass up high, and a thick leather belt being applied. Which is exactly what will happen right now. Now scoot. I can assure you that this lesson will stick with you for days afterwards young lady."

"Oh No! Daddy! please!!!!"

"Get upstairs to your bedroom. I want you in the middle of your bed, face down and draped over every last pillow you have, and there better not be a stitch of clothing on you, young lady. You heard me! Not a stitch! Now get going. NOW!"

"Ohhhh... Yes Sir..."

david scurried up the stairs to do as he was told. I gave him enough time to take off his clothes, prepare himself across the bed, and stew.

When I got upstairs, this is the sight I was presented with.

My slutty little daughter was showing off her clit to her Daddy! I made her put that away. How inappropriate! I took off my belt from around my waist, and I gave my badly behaved "daughter" such a belt whipping that she would think long and hard before going up against her Daddy again!

Just look a her! Draped across her pillows, waiting for her Daddy's strap. Yes, this is a very sexually submissive position for a female. Her holes available for a male's cock to plunder. But this is not Daddy's intent. Daddy will find a nice boy for her when it's her time. For now, Daddy requires his daughter to display her submissiveness to Him in this manner. Clearly this is all this girl understands.

How humiliating for a grown-up daughter to still be subject to birthday suit beltings from her Daddy! And bare naked to boot!

I can assure you, this young lady learned a valuable lesson that night! I used the belt on my naughty daughter full force to her bare cheeks. Strap after strap after strap until I felt I had strapped some respect back into her.

After I was done with her, this young lady had things done to her that no daddy should EVER do to her daughter!

In fact, Daddy even sat on her face and had his little girl lick her pussy and ass sooo good!